What is Merge?

Merge is a premarital preparation course designed for seriously dating and engaged couples who want to pursue marriage with clarity, confidence, and Christ at the center. Used by churches across the country, Merge helps couples preparing for marriage—and discern if they’re ready—through biblical teaching and guided conversations about God’s design for relationships.

What is Merge?

Merge is a premarital preparation course designed for seriously dating and engaged couples who want to pursue marriage with clarity, confidence, and Christ at the center. Used by churches across the country, Merge helps couples preparing for marriage—and discern if they’re ready—through biblical teaching and guided conversations about God’s design for relationships.

Why Merge Matters

You’re not just preparing for a wedding day—you’re preparing for lifetime together.
Merge helps you:

  • Evaluate your relationship through a biblical lens
  • Ask honest questions and address real-life issues
  • Learn to love, communicate, and grow more like Christ

Whether you move forward, take time to seek wisdom, or even end the relationship, Merge equips you to take your next step with clarity and confidence.

What to Expect

Eight engaging sessions
Teaching and discussion based on Scripture
Community with other couples and mentor leaders
Guided conversations and practical exercises outside of class
A safe space to be honest, challenged, and encouraged

Core Topics Covered

Week 1

Oneness & God’s Design for Marriage

Week 2

Communication & Conflict Resolution

Week 3

Roles of Husband & Wife

Week 4

Spiritual Growth, Pursuit, & Protection

Week 5

Finances & Stewardship

Week 6

Sexual Intimacy & Purity

Week 7

Family of Origin, In-Laws, & Future Planning

Week 8

Celebration and Next Steps

Who is Merge for?

Seriously dating and considering engagement
Engaged and preparing for marriage
Blending families or entering marriage again
Coming from any background — whether following Christ or exploring faith

Want to bring Merge to your church?

Merge is more than a premarital class. It’s a gospel-centered ministry that helps seriously dating and engaged couples build a foundation for marriage by talking about the things that matter most – before the vows are ever spoken.

Whether you’re a small church or a large campus, Merge is build to be scalable, volunteer-led, and simple to launch.

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